Almost six months old already...in some ways it seems longer. I can barely remember not having her around. Those first couple of months were pretty rough, until the smiles and giggles began, and her quirky little personality made its appearance. I'm not going to lie, she can be a royal pain, and a huge handful at times. But I love her, and having her here has taught me so much about how God loves me. Marie is completely dependent on us in every way, although she doesn't realize that quite yet. And so it is with God. What can we do for him, or give him, that he loves us like he does? Nada. But when Marie is content and delights in having me around, and spending time wrapped up in my arms, it reminds me that that's what God wants from us, too. To delight in our relationship with him, and to desire to spend time getting to know him. I think most of us are aware of this, but having a child has really made it more of a reality for me.
I'm (not really) looking forward to another aspect of parenting that will teach me more about God - discipline and obedience. Any helpful advice is welcome at this point. She's beginning to be defiant at the whopping age of 6 months :-)
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Aww...I love you, too, little stinker.
3 comments:
Maggie,
It is a vicious and hurtful lie that motherhood is this ethereal, whimsical experience. It is HARD work that tests your patience, goodness, and oftentimes your sanity. But it is in those trials that commitment to your children is born, as I'm sure you're experiencing (and we're experiencing all over again with Tally).
Yes, I totally believe you that you're starting to see defiance even at this age. I'll e-mail you about things that have worked (and not worked) with us.
And if you think 6 months is cute, wait until you hit a year! Oh my goodness - what a huge payoff.
By the way, Dan and I just had a discipline pow-wow last night since Kit seems to be maturing past our current methodology. Just like in warfare, the ability to change tactics midstream is absolutely necessary. Your children WILL outsmart you... you just have to stay ahead of them.
Just keep that little turkey away from the oven! :)
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